Sexual Problems & Difficulties

Devotional Sex can help couples deal with many common sexual problems and difficulties. 

This anoymoust poll is to find out which problems people wish me to write about first.

It also enables you to ask questions or let me know when you want me to say more about what I've already written about any problem. Note that as this poll is anonymous I can only answer your questions by updating the website.

To start off I'll ask a little about you, then you can let me know which problems you want me to write about soon.

As each person's problems and difficulties affect the couple's sex life, each difficulty affects the other person. So if the source of the difficulty in your relationship is with your partner, see the list of problems and difficulties for them.

For example, if his problem is that sex doesn't happen very often, and the reasons she doesn't want sex is that intercourse is painful for her, then select  'intercourse is painful for her' as the problem you want answered (and don't select 'she lacks interest in having sex').

If you can please use the comments boxes to tell me a bit more about your problem as this means I can ensure that your situation is covered in my writing.

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You are:

Your age is:

You are now:

You now:

Which of these problems is a HIGH priority to you and which are MEDIUM priority? (If neither just leave that row blank.)

HIGHMED
She lacks interest in having sex
She feels sex lacks intimacy
She feels sex lacks excitement and novelty
Sex isn't pleasurable for her
Intercourse is physically painful for her
She is unable or finds it hard to orgasm
She reaches orgasm too quickly
She is anxious about her ability to perform sexually
She worries during sex that her body looks unattractive
She worries that her vagina looks bad
Sex suffers because she has an illness, stress, or life disruption
She is having sex for the first time
She is suffering trauma caused by earlier bad sexual experience
Lack of trust due to him cheating
She is unhappy because he doesn't give her orgasms
She is unhappy because he is addicted to porn
She is unhappy because he has too much focus on kink / BDSM
HE lacks interest in having sex
He feels sex lacks intimacy
He feels sex lacks excitement and novelty
Sex isn't pleasurable for him
Intercourse is painful for him
He has erectile difficulties - ie can't get or stay hard
He ejaculates too quickly
He is unable or finds it hard to ejaculate
He is anxious about his ability to perform sexually
He worries during sex that his body looks unattractive
He worries that his penis looks too small
Sex suffers because he has an illness, stress, or life disruption
He is having sex for the first time
He is suffering trauma caused by earlier bad sexual experience
Lack of trust due to her cheating
He feels he is too addicted to porn
He wants her to do BDSM / Femdom but she isn't interested
He wants a Female Led Relationship (she controls finances, has him doing housework, etc) and she does not

Is there some further information which will help me write about how to fix your problem? For example, if she lacks interest in having sex is there a reason for this? The more you can tell me the better.

If your problem is not above, what is it?

Have you got a question or do you want me to expand on an answer already published? Or have you got a solution to a problem that you think I should add to my answer?