Style of sex within Devotional Sex

This survey aims to discover how Devotional Sex has changed what you do.

So before asking you what you now do within your DevS the survey first asks about what you used to do before DevS. 

One question is on the style of your sex. 

One extreme of style is shown in porn - this is the highly active style.

Porn is created to look visually interesting and thus it almost always shows high-energy activitiy. So intercourse is hard pumping, her giving him oral is his penis going in and out of her mouth, and him giving her oral has his mouth very active right from the start.

The other extreme is tantra which is very slow and takes much, much longer. 

Porn style active sex is very physical, overwhelming to the senses, and there isn't much connection. Tantra is slow, sensual and very connected.

You can see an example of ACTIVE intercourse, him giving her oral sex, and her giving him oral, and of MODERATELY SLOW AND SENSUAL intercourse and her giving him oral by clicking the linked words (Warning: the links contain explicit material only suitable for adults.)

Of course couples will vary the style - those who are usually slow and sensual will have moments of high activity, and those who are mainly high activity will have moments of slow and sensual, and some couples will be in between the two extremes. But for this survey just pick the style that you think is best match to you.

There are also lots of other questions relating to Devotional Sex.

As always your answers are likely to be guesstimates. For this survey to be useful it doesn't matter if you really do something 5 times a week but answer 4 or 6. So please try to get it about right, but close is good enough.

His age is:
You:
You have been doing DevS for:
BEFORE you started DevS your usual style of sex was:
See the text at the top of the page for a description of what I mean by active vs slow.
BEFORE you started DevS, in a normal week your longest session of sexual activity (ie from the beginning of foreplay to end of activities) would last for:
BEFORE you started DevS in a normal week you would have had sexual activity about:
BEFORE you started DevS, the percentage of your sessions which included intercourse was:
Pick the answer closest to what you did.
BEFORE you did DevS, the sexual activity which you spent the MOST time doing in a normal week was:
BEFORE you did DevS, the sexual activity which you spent the SECOND MOST amount of time doing in a normal week was:
If you only did one activity leave this question blank
BEFORE you did DevS, the sexual activity which you spent the THIRD MOST amount of time doing in a normal week was:
If you only did two activities leave this question blank
BEFORE you did DevS, the sexual activity which you spent the FOURTH MOST amount of time doing in a normal week was:
If you only did three or fewer activities leave this question blank
BEFORE you did DevS, the sexual activity which you spent the FIFTH MOST amount of time doing in a normal week was:
If you only did four or fewer activities leave this question blank.
BEFORE doing DevS and you had a wakeup or a bedtime that didn't include any sexual activity, you used to:
BEFORE you did DevS, what percentage of your ejaculations happened when you were alone?
Within your practice of Devotional Sex, your usual style of sex is now:
In a normal week of doing DevS your longest session of sexual activity (ie from the beginning of foreplay to end of activities) would last for:
Don't include the time spent having a Devotional Cuddle after sexual activity had ended.
Now that you do DevS in a normal week you have sexual activity about:
For this question just a Devotional Cuddle (a cuddle where she gently holds his erection) doesn't count as sexual activity, but a few minutes of active playing with him does. A session with oral sex (either way) and nothing else does count as a session of sexual activity.
When doing DevS, the percentage of your sessions which included intercourse is:
Don't include sessions which are just a Devotional Cuddle.
When doing DevS and you have a wakeup or a bedtime that doesn't include any sexual activity, this will:
When she is his Princess her style of having control is:
How much of what you do arises from the Knight suggesting you do that activity?
When doing DevS, the sexual activity which you spend the MOST time doing in a normal week is:
When doing DevS, the sexual activity which you spend the SECOND MOST time doing in a normal week is:
Leave blank if you only do one activity
When doing DevS, the sexual activity which you spend the THIRD MOST time doing in a normal week is:
Leave blank if you only do one or two activities
When doing DevS, the sexual activity which you spend the FOURTH MOST time doing in a normal week is:
Leave blank if you only do three or fewer activities
When doing DevS, the sexual activity which you spend the FIFTH MOST time doing in a normal week is:
Leave blank if you only do four or fewer activities
When sexual activity ends and he has not got to ejaculate that session, he most often feels:
When doing DevS he often gets erect when with his Princess. In a usual week of DevS about how many hours in total is he fully erect when with his Princess?
The answer will probably be a guesstimate. Remember to include all those times when he is hard for just a short time - a few minutes here and there add up over a week.
The thing that you spend MOST time doing doing when he is erect with his Princess is:
The thing that you spend the SECOND MOST time doing doing when he is erect with his Princess is:
When doing DevS he will at times get erect WHEN ALONE. In a usual week of DevS about how many hours in total is he fully erect when alone?
The answer will probably be a guesstimate. Remember to include all those times when he is hard for just a short time - a few minutes here and there add up over a week.
When he is alone and erect the percentage of this time that he is playing with himself is:
In a typical week of doing DevS, you do Affirmation (spending time together with him naked and her dressed) about:
How often in a normal week of DevS do you have a phone call or message each other and he responds to this by getting an erection?
How common could Devotional Sex become? Think of ten normal couples. If they were told ALL about DevS so they have learned about the pleasures and the challenges, how many of these couples do you think would give DevS a go?
How do you relate Devotional Sex to other techniques? Which statement is closest to your view?
Is there anything you want to add arising from anything in the above survey?