What happens when doing Devotional Sex?

This survey is for those who either LIVE Devotional Sex (ie always do it) or who USUALLY practice DevS (ie do it most of the time but not always).

So please don't do the survey if you only sometimes do DevS, and only one response per couple. 

The aim is to find out what Devotee couples actually do by entering the number of minutes you do each activity in a normal week of DevS. No-one takes out a stopwatch so the best you can do is to make a reasonable guess. 

If you don't do an activity either enter 0 or leave that question blank.

And please don't double count any time - so if he gives her a foot massage for 20 minutes while Affirmed count that as giving a massage and don't also include that time as Affirmation time. So every minute of activity should only appear in one answer. And the total of every answer is the total number of minutes you spent doing DevS that week.

It may help to start with the big picture. So if you have say 90 minutes of sexual activity each week and if a bit over half your activity is him giving her a Pleasure Kiss, you might enter 55 for that question. You now have about 35 minutes to allocate to the other activities.

For activities you only do say once a month you can average it out. So if, for example, once a month she uses a sex toy on him for 20 minutes, then that averages out as about 5 minutes a week.

You might find it fun to do this survey with your partner. Otherwise it may help to ask your partner a few questions.

Sakamakon yana samuwa ga mai rubutu kawai

His age is:

You:

You have been doing DevS for:

HOW MANY MINUTES A WEEK DO YOU DO THE FOLLOWING?

(This is just a heading, so don't reply to this question.)

Pleasure Kissing (him giving her oral sex)?

Enter the number of MINUTES (eg 0, 5, 60, 120)

Pleasure Play (him using his fingers on her sex)?

Her having him use a sex toy on her?

Her using a sex toy on herself?

(with him with her at the time)

Desire Play (she actively plays with his erection)

In bed (ie don't include Desire Play during Affirmation).

Self Desire Play (she has him play with himself while in bed together)?

So don't include him playing with himself during Affirmation.

Joy (intercourse) with at least gentle activity?

Joy with neither of you moving?

ie she ends active movements but instead of having him pull out she has him stay still inside her.

Desire Kissing (her giving him oral sex)?

Her using a sex toy on him?

eg a butt plug or a stap on.

Devotional Cuddle (she gently holds his erection as you cuddle)?

A cuddle with him erect but her not touching his erection?

Him erect while with her in bed but not cuddling and his erection not touched?

Cuddling in bed when he is NOT erect?

Him giving her a foot or body massage and he is erect?

Him giving her a foot or body massage and he isn't erect?

AFFIRMATION (ie spending time together outside the bedroom with him naked and her dressed) with her playing with him?

Affirmation with him playing with himself?

Either because she has asked him to play with himself or she allows him to do this when with her and he had decided to do this.

Affirmation with him fully erect but his erection not being touched?

Affirmation with him soft or only slightly hard?

Him ALONE and erect and playing with himself?

Him alone and fully erect and him NOT touching himself?

Her ALONE and playing with herself?

As a result of all this activity SHE has about how many orgasms each week?

The average number of days he lasts before ejaculating is?

This survey was filled in by:

Is there any activity that I should add to this list? If so please say and also say how many minutes you do this each week. I also very much welcome any other comments about this survey and your experience of DevS