Affection in your relationship

This poll is for for couples who DO NOT practice Devotional Sex.
(If you do DevS then please do THIS SURVEY instead.)

It looks at how many minutes in a typical week you do a range of affectionate activities. 

Just a good guess of how many minutes a week will do. 

Iif you do something so often that you think in hours, just convert the hours to minutes. So an hour a day is 7 * 60 = 420 minutes.

If you do an activity for say 10 minutes once every two weeks, just average this out and so enter that you do it for 5 minutes each week. 

If an answer is zero then either enter 0 or just leave that question unanswered and move on to the next. 

This is a survey which is good to fill in together. Otherwise you may need to ask your partner a few questions. 

(It's worth asking your partner as not only will the survey results be more accurate but because you may be surprised by some of the answers.)

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His age is:

How long have you been together?

Your sexual relationship is

HOLDING HANDS: How many minutes a week do you hold hands?

CUDDLING IN BED: How many minutes a week do you cuddle in bed each week?

CUDDLING OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM: How many minutes a week do you cuddle each other each week outside of the bedroom (eg in the living room, sitting on a park bench, etc)?

MASSAGE: How many minutes a week does he spend giving her a massaging (foot, back, or body)?

MOUTH TO MOUTH PASSIONATE KISSING: How many minutes a week do you passionately kiss each week? The passion may be slow and gentle or active - but it's more than an 'affectionate hello'. This includes passionate mouth to mouth kissing during sexual activity as well as kissing when dressed, etc.

HIM KISSING HER BODY: How many minutes a week does he kiss her body (ie not her mouth and not oral sex but anywhere else on the body)?

If things could change, HE would like the amount of affection to

If things could change, SHE would like the amount of affection to

SEXUAL ACTIVITIES: Minutes a week of having intercourse:

ORAL SEX TO HER: How many minutes a week does he spend giving her oral sex ?

Him giving her oral sex is another way of him kissing her, so as well as this being sexual there may be a component of it being affection as well. To what extent does HE think giving oral sex is also affection?

To what extent does SHE think receiving oral sex is also affection?

Minutes a week of sexual activity OTHER THAN intercourse or him giving her oral sex (so minutes of her giving him oral and using your hands to play with each other):

SEX OVERALL: As well as being about sexual pleasures it can be about affection, or perhaps it is mainly done for duty. For HIM the mix is:

For HER the mix for sex overall is:

Your interest in Devotional Sex?

This survey has been done by

Is there any other activity which is a key part of your affection or do you have any other comments to make about this survey or about DevS?