ANKETA TĖVAMS

ඔබගේ ළමයා කෝපය ගනීනම් ඔබ කුමක් කරන්නේද?

  1. don't know
  2. sakome: "uffff. you are so annoying... you don't like it... i understand... i see... uffff" it's like we agree with the feeling he is experiencing, but we wait until the emotion subsides and ends, and then we talk.
  3. i don't pay attention.
  4. it depends on the situation: sometimes i ignore it, sometimes i explain that it's not worth getting angry and fighting over, and sometimes i give a strong hug.
  5. depending on the circumstances—what caused the anger, whether we are in a public place or at home, whether we are alone or there are other family members present—i sometimes calmly stay close, hug, try to make them laugh, play a game, or suggest something pleasant. other times, i let them be alone until the anger dissipates, and sometimes i firmly ask them to stop throwing things with a few arguments. we definitely talk when things have calmed down.
  6. i take him in my arms and say that everything is fine.
  7. i'm waiting a few minutes and then i'm going to talk to the child, explain why i couldn't do something the way he wanted and why he got angry about it.
  8. i speak calmly and try to soothe and suggest a situation; if he doesn't calm down, i offer something he likes (cookies, riding a bike, or watching a movie).
  9. i don't react, i pretend that nothing happened, sometimes i try to talk it over, and very rarely i scold.
  10. i let the anger out, then i try to calm down.
  11. i'm talking, trying to calm down.
  12. let's wait until it calms down.
  13. raminu
  14. it depends on the situation: either i try to explain what the truth is or i let myself get angry and be alone.
  15. i'm talking, trying to figure out the reason for the anger.
  16. we are going to her room to calm down.
  17. i always try to figure out why the child got angry and how it could be fixed so that everyone in the family feels good.
  18. we chat, or i start to act out her puffed-up lips angrily, and then we both laugh.
  19. depending on who we think is to blame, if the parents apologize, we try to explain to the child what happened and why.
  20. i try to redirect attention by showing a new object. take it in your hands and hold it tightly, cuddle it. just hold it in your hands and pet it.
  21. i say that if you try one more time, it will probably work.
  22. i try to stay calm and calmly talk about what caused the anger.
  23. i will try to leave them alone for a while, and after some time, i will go talk to the child to find out why they got angry.
  24. i will explain the situation.
  25. i try to hug and calm down.
  26. i will wait calmly, i react calmly.
  27. i am speaking.
  28. either i intentionally don't react and do some other tasks, or i come over and sit next to them, chatting.
  29. i speak to him in a calm tone.
  30. 1. speaking softly, kneeling at the child's eye level. 2. embracing and holding tightly until the emotions subside. 3. sometimes you burst out and yell.
  31. i start to speak, to clarify.
  32. i will try to find out the reason and calm down.
  33. we are talking