sakome: "uffff. you are so annoying... you don't like it... i understand... i see... uffff" it's like we agree with the feeling he is experiencing, but we wait until the emotion subsides and ends, and then we talk.
i don't pay attention.
it depends on the situation: sometimes i ignore it, sometimes i explain that it's not worth getting angry and fighting over, and sometimes i give a strong hug.
depending on the circumstances—what caused the anger, whether we are in a public place or at home, whether we are alone or there are other family members present—i sometimes calmly stay close, hug, try to make them laugh, play a game, or suggest something pleasant. other times, i let them be alone until the anger dissipates, and sometimes i firmly ask them to stop throwing things with a few arguments. we definitely talk when things have calmed down.
i take him in my arms and say that everything is fine.
i'm waiting a few minutes and then i'm going to talk to the child, explain why i couldn't do something the way he wanted and why he got angry about it.
i speak calmly and try to soothe and suggest a situation; if he doesn't calm down, i offer something he likes (cookies, riding a bike, or watching a movie).
i don't react, i pretend that nothing happened, sometimes i try to talk it over, and very rarely i scold.
i let the anger out, then i try to calm down.
i'm talking, trying to calm down.
let's wait until it calms down.
raminu
it depends on the situation: either i try to explain what the truth is or i let myself get angry and be alone.
i'm talking, trying to figure out the reason for the anger.
we are going to her room to calm down.
i always try to figure out why the child got angry and how it could be fixed so that everyone in the family feels good.
we chat, or i start to act out her puffed-up lips angrily, and then we both laugh.
depending on who we think is to blame, if the parents apologize, we try to explain to the child what happened and why.
i try to redirect attention by showing a new object. take it in your hands and hold it tightly, cuddle it. just hold it in your hands and pet it.
i say that if you try one more time, it will probably work.
i try to stay calm and calmly talk about what caused the anger.
i will try to leave them alone for a while, and after some time, i will go talk to the child to find out why they got angry.
i will explain the situation.
i try to hug and calm down.
i will wait calmly, i react calmly.
i am speaking.
either i intentionally don't react and do some other tasks, or i come over and sit next to them, chatting.
i speak to him in a calm tone.
1. speaking softly, kneeling at the child's eye level.
2. embracing and holding tightly until the emotions subside.
3. sometimes you burst out and yell.