Affirmation - Spending time with him naked and her dressed

Any comments or experiences to share about what happens during Affirmation?

  1. Generally practiced only during the late spring and summer, otherwise it's too cold!
  2. Kids in house. She is uncomfortable with my nudity
  3. it reaffirms my commitment to her
  4. I am a 28 year old girl. I have had six sexual partners. I met a 23 year old boy who was a virgin. I kept my number of sex partners a secret from my current by for about a year. Eventually after being asked about my number of partners, I lied and said I only had one, slept with a guy only once. This was a big lie, however I did not want to loose this guy. During our first year together, he came to my home after work three times a week. I would make him dinner, then he would take a shower to freshen up for our evening together. I keep my clothing on and asked him to remain nude. He was ok with this. I truly enjoyed his nudity. He was young, handsome, had nice blond pubic hair and very charged up. He would stay hard and erect for hours at a time. My goal was to try to male him go flaccid. It was hard, he was young horny and I did not let him cum very often. He insisted that intercourse should happen only after marriage. I was fine with his wishes, as I had experienced intercourse many times with six different men and felt it was his loss not mine. I enjoyed seeing his penis get soft then pop back up to hard as a rock. After about a year and a half he became used to walking around my home naked in front of his fully clothed gf and his penis was flaccid for half the time. It was an amazing experience, I eventually married this boy and we still to this day watch tv with me being fully clothed and my husband in the nude after taking a shower sitting on the sofa next to me watching tv while I cup his balls and make his penis get erect and flaccid over and over during our evening together.
  5. My lover keeps me naked all the time when we are alone. We live alone and I am a househusband, so I am naked sometimes for days at a time. I am allowed to wear clothes for brief outdoor tasks, but when indoors I am required to be naked. This means that I do household chores while naked, and I serve her meals and kneel to rub her feet while naked, too. I rarely see her nude except when I assist with her bathing. She enjoys having access to my body. I am not allowed to touch my genitals, but she does so quite a lot. She routinely gives me little playful spanks, or painful spanks if need be. I get erect at times even when she does not touch me. For example, when cleaning floors and bathrooms the humiliation makes me erect.
  6. She may suddenly get him hard either by touching him or asking him to stroke, perhaps by miming a shaking action. He will ask if he can cum and usually he's told he can't. Usually he's kept naked and not erect and he'll get on with normal business like cooking or just cuddling on the sofa. She likes to see the effect of his mood on his body- an uncovered flaccid penis nevertheless moves on its own!
  7. The feeling I get when fully naked in front her totally clothed is one of complete devotion and submissiveness.
  8. Room temperature and kids around make affirmation not often possible.
  9. She likes the energy in the room and the openness of the affirmation He enjoys the power transfer
  10. we usually enjoy affirmation at home watching TV. She usually allows me to kiss her hands, knees or thighs gently but I am not allowed to touch her vagina or breasts without permission. sometimes I'm allowed to wash her feet during affirmation. she enjoys looking at my erection and if I am not hard sometimes she allows me to sniff her vagina to get me erected. sometimes she will blow in my ear and whisper "I want you as hard as a bottle", It's usually gets me immediately hard.