Ni iyihe nkuru yawe y'ingenzi cyane ku guhamagarwa? Ibyo byaguhaye iki? Ibi bishobora kuba ijambo rimwe cyangwa inkuru yose.
ngiye ku mugaragaro mu matora y'abayobozi b'ishuri 😉
ihane kubo.
nshobora kuvuga neza ko nta wigeze ankorera ikintu nk'icyo cyangwa ikindi kimeze nk'icyo, kandi sintekereza ko bafite ubushake bwo kubikora.
nafite ibihe byinshi byo guhura n'ibivugwa ku bagore hano muri norton. iyo njya hanze kwiruka, si ibintu bisanzwe kubona umusore ukiri muto asakuza mu idirishya rye akavuga "sexy" cyangwa indi mvugo iteye impungenge. ntabwo mbona amahirwe menshi yo gusubiza kuko baba batwaye mu nzira, bityo akenshi ndabaha isura itari nziza. ibi bibaye, numva nk'igice cy'inyama, nk'aho ntari umuntu ufite amarangamutima, ahubwo ndi umusore w'ibishushanyo bigamije gushimisha abagabo. guhamagara abagore ni ikintu kidakwiye mu bitekerezo byanjye.
nibuka mu mashuri yisumbuye nari nanyuze mu muhanda n'umusore w'inshuti yanjye, imodoka yanyuraga irakubita cyangwa iravuga ku bwanjye, sinzi niba nagombaga kumuharabika cyangwa nkabihorera. nari mfite umujinya!
nari ndi kugenda njyenyine njya kuri walgreens, ibyo byatumye numva ndi mu kaga. njye na mugenzi wanjye twigeze guhamagarwa n’abagabo bo mu modoka ubwo twari turi kugenda hamwe. hari igihe byabaga byiza, ariko akenshi byabaga bibi kandi bitari byiza. nari ngomba guhagarara no gutegereza crossing umuhanda, maze mpari, imodoka yuzuye abasore batangiye gucuranga umuziki iraje igabanya umuvuduko. amadirishya yari afunguye kandi bamwe muri bo bararambitse hanze baravuga bati "heyyy!" "woo woo!" n'ibindi byinshi. ntabwo nari nambaye imyenda iteye amabengeza cyangwa ngo nstande mu buryo bushukana. byari hagati y'itumba, nari nambaye imyenda myinshi, bityo ikimenyetso cy'ubwiza bwanjye cyari cyihishe. ariko ntibabikozaga, nari umukobwa, nstande njyenyine, nkingiwe n'ibinyabiziga, kandi nagombaga kubumva. byari bibi kandi byangiza isura. nagerageje kubereka akaboko nyuma y'iminota mike ariko...nari nambaye ibikapu ku maboko. ibyo byari isoni.
umunsi umwe, nari ndimo kugenda mu muhanda mu gace kanjye, umugabo uri ku igorofa rya nyuma y’inyubako yambwiye nkamukurikira, atangira gukora imyitwarire yerekana ibijyanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina. nari mfite ubwoba bwinshi ku buryo nahise nihutira mu muhanda kandi nari mfite ubwoba buri gihe nanyuraga aho. ubu yamaze kwimuka ariko ndacyumva ntameze neza kandi ntekereza kuri iyo experience buri gihe nanyura aho.
nagize uburambe ubwo nari ndimo kwiruka hafi y'ishuri njyenyine. ni umuhanda w'abaturage ufite traffic nke cyangwa nta traffic na busa. nari ndi ku muhanda, imodoka iranyambuka irakubita ikirenge, kandi ntabwo byari mu buryo bw'inshuti. imodoka yayoborwaga n'umugabo w’imyaka hagati ya 20. niba nari kumwe n'abandi bantu, nari gukora ikimenyetso kibi kugira ngo mbereke ko ibyo yakoze atari byiza. ariko, kuko nari njyenyine, sinari numva meze neza cyangwa mu mutekano wo gukora icyo gikorwa. nubwo atari ikintu gikomeye, byatumye numva ntameze neza kandi ntewe ipfunwe, nk'aho nari nambaye imyenda mike kurusha uko nari nambaye.
nize mu gihugu kivuga icyespanyolo, kandi uburambe bwiza cyane nagize ubwo nari aho ni igihe nari ndimo kugenda mu muhanda, njyenyine, nambaye ibikoresho byanjye bya ipod mu matwi. narebye hasi ku ipod yanjye, mu gihe icyo, umugabo wari unyuraga hafi yanjye yegereye isura ye hafi yanjye nka santimetero 15, arakora ati "mami". hanyuma akomeza kugenda. mbere na mbere numvise nk'uteye ubwoba, hanyuma nyuma y'icyo gihe numvise ko yantengushye mu mwanya wanjye kandi numvise ntewe impungenge kandi nishimiye.
nari i prague, abagabo baravuga cyane mu burayi.
"buri wese yabonye ibi bibaho mu gihe runaka mu buzima bwe."
umugabo utangaje yacurangiye indirimbo "blow my whistle" ku nshuti zanjye nanjye.. ntakabuza twaratewe ubwoba kandi sinigeze nshobora gutekereza kuri iyo ndirimbo mu buryo bumwe ukundi!
abakobwa bamwe nanjye twari tugiye mu nzira tuvana mu hoteli yacu tugashaka ahantu ho kurya ubwo imodoka y'abagabo yari yuzuye yahagaze ku ruhande rw'umuzingo wacu itangira gucana urusaku no gucana akabariro. bari baduhamagara kandi byari nijoro, twari mu gace tutari tuzi, hari tumeze bane kandi ntitwari tuzi umubare wabo. byari bigoye kandi byatezaga ubwoba.
ntekereza ko byaba byarabaye igihe umugabo yampamagaye ngo "ubikore mu mazi" ndi mu myitozo, cyangwa igihe nari ndimo kugenda nsubira mu rugo mu mujyi nijoro, umugabo akavuga ko ndi wenyine hanyuma akigira nk'ushaka kuza hafi yanjye kugira ngo antere ubwoba.
mu gihe nanyuraga njya kuri cvs, hari umuntu warakariye avuga ko mfite imisatsi myiza avuye mu modoka ye yari ihagaze. nari ntewe ipfunwe gusa kuko uwo mugabo yari afite isura iteye ubwoba kandi yari umunyamahanga kuri njye. akenshi nishimira iyo umuntu ambwira ikintu cyiza, ariko iyo ngingo yatumye ntera ubwoba maze ndiruka njya mu rihumye.
nigeze nsubira mu cyumba cyanjye nyuma y'igitaramo mu haas, maze nkatabwa amaso n'itsinda ry'abasore benshi. bavugaga ibintu nka "ugiye hehe, mwiza?", na "erega mwiza, ushaka kugenda nanjye ahantu?", n'ibindi nk'ibyo. ariko, hari umusore umwe muri iryo tsinda utavuze na kimwe kuri njye ahubwo yahindukiye inshuti ze aravuga ati "erega, ntimukavuge kuri we gutya, muhe icyubahiro akwiye!". yabivuze mu buryo bukomeye (atari mu buryo bwo gukina), kandi abandi basore baracecetse nyuma y'uko abivuze. natekerezaga ko ari byiza cyane ko yari afite ubutwari bwo guhagarara ku nshuti ze muri ubwo buryo, kandi nabikunze cyane. kandi kenshi nifuza ko abantu benshi bagira icyo bavuga igihe abandi bababaza gutya.
ibi birabera buri gihe, hatitawe ku muntu ndi kumwe na we. inshuti, ni ngombwa. ababyeyi, by'ukuri. abavandimwe, nta gushidikanya. birasharira, birakabije kandi birababaza. sinzi uwahisemo ko guhamagara abakobwa mu ruhame ari byiza, cyangwa se ko bashobora kuba bashaka kubyumva, kuko ntibishimisha na gato kandi bituma buri wese ubigizemo uruhare yumva atisanzuye kandi afite ipfunwe rikomeye.
iyi si inkuru yihariye y'ukuvuga ariko natekereje ko nagombye gusangiza ibyo numvise undi munsi. numvise umukobwa avuga ko yumvaga atishimye kubera ko atigeze akorwaho. ni ikintu kibi cyane? yumvaga ko ari mabi cyane ku buryo atakorerwa ihohoterwa.
nari ndimo ngenda njya kuri cvs maze nkumirwa n'umuntu uri mu modoka ye. mu mucyo w'igicamunsi. nta muntu usaba guhatirwa, nta muntu ukwiye kugira ibyo yitaho ku byo yambara kugira ngo yumve ko arinzwe, nta munyeshuri wa wheaton ukwiye kumva atisanzuye mu gihe avuye ku ishuri rye, kandi sinakagombye kumva ko ngomba gufata urufunguzo mu ntoki zanjye nk'igikoresho gishobora gukoreshwa nk'imbunda saa moya z'igicamunsi.