Gukora ubukwe bw'imbere. Gukundana kwa Millie Bobby Brown.

nta kintu mfiteho, igihe cyose bitabaye ngombwa cyangwa bitakoreshejwe imbaraga ku bintu nko gutwita cyangwa amafaranga.

niba aribyo abantu bafata, ni byiza kuri bo. si ikintu ntekereza gukora.

ntabwo mbona impamvu yo gushaka, yaba kare cyangwa se nyuma. niba ukunda umuntu, ushobora kubana na we utashatse. gushaka ni nko kugaragaza ku bandi ko "reba, dukundana kandi dushaka kubigaragaza ku bandi tubinyujije mu gushaka."

byiza mu bihe bimwe na bimwe

ntekereza ko hari amahirwe menshi yo gutandukana no kubana nabi mu muryango.

ndi ku rugero rwo kwanga igihe gito gishya cy'ubukwe gikorwa ku nguvu, mu buryo butifuzwa, hakurikijwe imigenzo (guhinduranya, kugura n'ibindi). ku myaka 17, ndabona ari icyemezo kibi cyane gushaka. ariko ku myaka 18, ntabwo bimeze nk'ibikanga. umuntu aba ageze mu myaka y'ubukure, cyane cyane niba ashobora kwifasha no gutekereza neza, kuki bitaba? ndi ku rugero rwo kwanga izo santuwa zose z'imigenzo. aha niho hantu hatariho, igihe umusore cyangwa umukobwa afite imyaka 14 gusa. ariko ku myaka 20? birumvikana. niba nagira umusore ungira inama yo gushaka muri icyo gihe kandi nkamenya ko uwo muntu ari uwanjye, naba nemeye burundu. ariko biratangaje impamvu bishobora kugaragara nk'ibitagenda neza ku myaka 18 cyangwa 20 mu gushaka cyangwa mu kubyara abana... iyo ubajije ababyeyi kandi ukabikora neza, umubare w'ibisubizo uba usa, muri icyo gihe, benshi bashaka kubaka imiryango.

nta kintu na kimwe. si ibyanjye.

ni icyemezo cy'umuntu.

birihutirwa mu bitekerezo byanjye, abantu bakeneye kubaho gato, kuko hashingiwe ku mibare, imibanire myinshi (hafi 90%) ntiriramba niba yaremwe mbere y’imyaka 30.

niba abo bantu babiri bafashe icyemezo cyo gukora iki gikorwa, ni amahitamo yabo, hatitawe ku myaka (niba ari 18 cyangwa 48). ariko, gusezerana munsi y’imyaka 18 byanshobokeye kuba bidasanzwe...