Affirmation - Spending time with him naked and her dressed

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His age is:

How often do you do Devotional Sex?

Is his pubic hair shaved as the private symbol that he is her Knight?

How often do you enjoy Affirmation?

What usually happens during Affirmation?

Any comments or experiences to share about what happens during Affirmation?

  1. Generally practiced only during the late spring and summer, otherwise it's too cold!
  2. Kids in house. She is uncomfortable with my nudity
  3. it reaffirms my commitment to her
  4. My lover keeps me naked all the time when we are alone. We live alone and I am a househusband, so I am naked sometimes for days at a time. I am allowed to wear clothes for brief outdoor tasks, but when indoors I am required to be naked. This means that I do household chores while naked, and I serve her meals and kneel to rub her feet while naked, too. I rarely see her nude except when I assist with her bathing. She enjoys having access to my body. I am not allowed to touch my genitals, but she does so quite a lot. She routinely gives me little playful spanks, or painful spanks if need be. I get erect at times even when she does not touch me. For example, when cleaning floors and bathrooms the humiliation makes me erect.
  5. The feeling I get when fully naked in front her totally clothed is one of complete devotion and submissiveness.
  6. Room temperature and kids around make affirmation not often possible.
  7. She likes the energy in the room and the openness of the affirmation He enjoys the power transfer
  8. We both enjoy nudity. Affirmation just gets him nude sometime before she gets nude too!
  9. He is keep in chastity device
  10. Would love to try but princess is too nervous of visitors to the house
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Is Affirmation mainly done

Why does the Knight enjoy being Affirmed?

  1. He finds it exciting to have his nakedness always displayed to her: a curious mixture of pride and the acceptance of embarrassment.
  2. Exciting to be on dislay for her
  3. it is a way to show that she is my Princess
  4. To be honest, at times I would like to put on clothes, especially during winter. Also, when i am naked I am not allowed on the furniture, so I spend a lot of time in the floor, or standing. I sometimes wish I could sit on the sofa rather than on the floor. Other times I absolutely love being at her mercy, and at her feet. Any trepidation about my nakedness is overshadowed by the feeling of being owned that comes with not having control over my body. I like being treated as her slave, and I like the feeling of powerlessness that constant nudity gives me. Even though it is sometimes uncomfortable, it is also erotic, and it makes my daily life a very long session of foreplay -- even though I rarely am allowed release. I am constantly frustrated. I like that and don't like that, both at the same time, but I find solace in submission, so that makes it okay on the whole.
  5. He enjoys pleasing me.
  6. The feelings of being pleasurable to my princess.
  7. Loves the feeling of being hers and submissive.
  8. It satisfies my exhibitionist side
  9. He enjoys the power transfer
  10. Because he enjoys the feeling of her control over the sexual activity
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Why does the Princess enjoy having her Knight Affirmed?

  1. She likes the difference in status, says it is "proper order."
  2. She does not like it
  3. It shows her my commitment to her
  4. She says she likes the feeling of power it gives her, and the way it puts her in control over me, both as her servant and as her lover. It's symbolic in a way, a symbol of her ownership and my subservience. But it is real, too -- she has easy access to my body, which we both like to think of as her personal property. She says she likes the way I look when I am naked doing household chores. She says that when I am naked I am more easily aroused, and my erections are harder and more fun for her to toy with. When she is relaxing she sometimes summons me to rub her feet, and she loves to have me naked in those moments because she enjoys rubbing or kicking my erection with her foot while I kneel. She finds this arousing, and it often results in me bringing her to orgasm through oral worship. It is a wonderfully intimate way to express our love for one another.
  5. I enjoy his nakedness. Visually and physically
  6. She enjoys seeing his desire.
  7. Loves my complete devotion to her by giving myself to her.
  8. She is a woman that is visually stimulated so she enjoys looking at my erect desire.
  9. She enjoys the dynamic and energy created by it.
  10. It the opposite of those cheesy novels where the woman is naked and the man is dressed.
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Have you done Affirmation outside?

Any comments or experiences to share about Affirmation outside?

  1. Can't see it happening as we live in a big city apartment. Alas.
  2. I want to. She not so much
  3. We have been to an optional clothing beach.
  4. I call her my Queen in front of everyone.
  5. Very freeing.
  6. On a nude beach - her in bikini and me nude.
  7. Only have tried this on a clothing optional beach. Took a stroll along the waters edge, very exciting for the knight to be exposed to everyone. Would highly recommend this, a clothing optional beach is a great safe place to do this.

Have you done Affirmation with others present?

Have you any comments or experiences you are willing to share about Affirmation when others are present?

  1. He likes the idea as a fantasy, but they don't know anyone with whom they could share this.
  2. I say she would never do this, but she may surprise me one day. I used to think she would never treat me as a servant in front of friends or household guests, but I was wrong about that. Sometimes she even loans me to her girlfriends when she thinks they need help with chores. They surely recognize that she does not ask me, she tells me, and I always say "Yes, Ma'am." I find it deeply humiliating and arousing at the same time, but any erotic aspect of serving her friends is totally between me and my owner. I think I would be mortified if I had to be naked in front of someone else, but I would do it if she ordered me to. She keeps sexuality private, though, so I would be surprised.
  3. It is very humbling and exciting.
  4. My Queen girlfriend knows all about this
  5. We absolutely love it. We are in a Femdom relationship, so this kind of play is part and parcel for us at least. The humiliation aspect takes us both over the top.
  6. The guests should never be involved unless they know ahead of time and approve. The knight makes a good conversation piece and sets the tone for a fun evening. It's fun to see the knight groped by the guests.
  7. For her Knight this was the most exciting time. Proud to be her Knight.
  8. we both have strange feelings about presenting his arousal to others. Whilst she enjoys teasing him about presenting him to others, he is reluctant because of being unsure about where others are willing to see or feel offended. Nevertheless he enjoys we she shows other gals that he is hers to play with. We're still exploring this aspects and not yet sure what to make about them.
  9. Once, my wife invited her younger sister to spend the evening with us with them clothed and me nude. We all enjoyed it very much. Another time, my wife called me from work and asked me to be nude when she got home. I answered the door to find she brought two of her female co-workers home with her. We spent two hours with me nude serving drinks to them. I was hard about half the time.
  10. In total privacy and respect for his body and not to be humiliated but desires for - I prefer females because they tend to be more mature than males.

Any other comments about Affirmation?

  1. We use different terminology than you do, but I like the word affirmation. We just consider my nakedness a normal part of life. We use the words "Master" and "slave" in our household. I call her Master when we are alone and "Ma'am" when others are present, and she considers me her slave. We are not part of the "BDSM" community or anything like it -- she finds it demeaning to women -- and we do not use whips, chains and dungeons. But over time she has slowly become more dominant over me, and we both like it. We began openly discussing a Master-slave dynamic about three years ago and we find it both erotic and practical. I believe in female superiority as an article of faith. She sometimes punishes me. She uses a paddle, or spanks me with her hand, or uses switches, but it isn't necessary most of the time because I am usually well-behaved and obedient. I treat her as my superior 24/7, and I love it. Being naked is part of that. I think it helps me be obedient because it is a constant reminder of my subservient status.
  2. I (knight) would like to experiment with all types of affirmation, but so far my princess has shown no interest.
  3. We're trying to "affirm" as often as possible, making it the norm at home.
  4. This happened in a previous relationship before we knew anything about devotional sex. We enjoyed being nude, admiring each other, and having a sensual connection.
  5. People watching on skype is a good alternative to public
  6. As a Knight - I always enjoy Affirmation.
  7. Love it!
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